One thing is for certain, and that is there are few teachers around who aren’t feeling like they’ve run a couple back-to-ultra marathons these days. After the September to November sprint of start-up, meet the teacher, diagnostic assessments, long-range planning, new testing initiatives, re-organization, getting to know the parents, meeting the needs of the kids, IEPs, progress reports,....do I need to go on?

It’s kind of incredible that we get through it, to be honest. Many of us are just treading water. Some of us are feeling like we’ve got just a nostril above the surface to breathe, and others are wondering if we might just drown.

Stop. Take a breath. Hold it. Breathe out. And reflect.

These struggles need not be handled on one's own.

I can empathize. I am a teacher. I teach and offer therapy too. ​ (OCT # 575516 )

Teacher Tired... (many just don't understand)

Work or School Overwhelm. What does that look like?

Overwhelm at work or school often shows up long before someone realizes they’re struggling. It’s not just “being busy”—it’s a state where the mind and body start signalling that the load has become too heavy to carry alone.

What overwhelm can look like

  • Constant mental noise where even small decisions feel hard because your brain is already running at capacity.

  • Emotional fatigue that makes you more irritable, tearful, or numb than usual.

  • Difficulty concentrating or retaining information, even when you’re trying your best.

  • A sense of falling behind no matter how much effort you put in, creating a cycle of self‑criticism and pressure.

  • Physical symptoms like headaches, tension, disrupted sleep, or feeling wired and exhausted at the same time.

  • Avoidance or procrastination not from laziness, but because your system is overloaded and trying to protect itself.

  • Losing your sense of self as responsibilities pile up and there’s no space left for rest, joy, or identity outside of performance.

Why it matters

Overwhelm is a sign that your internal resources are being stretched by external demands—deadlines, expectations, perfectionism, or systemic pressures that don’t leave room for being human. It’s not a personal failure; it’s a nervous system response to chronic stress.

How support helps

Therapy creates space to slow down, understand what’s driving the overwhelm, and rebuild sustainable ways of working, learning, and caring for yourself. It helps you reconnect with your values, set boundaries, and move from survival mode back into a life that feels grounded and manageable.

Many people face many unique stressors these days, and finding a therapist who can connect with them can be tricky. Working with children and teens is an area of expertise for me, as I have successfully built effective and lasting strategies for connecting with this group over the last 30 years.

I understand school stressors and have supported students with school avoidance, school-related traumas, learning challenges, and many other problems impacting our kids' lives. I am so familiar with the stressors that can bubble up as kids move into new friend groups or are pushed away from peers. I have supported teens through many of the trials that Covid brought and the aftermath of how it has changed teens' normalcy. I have helped families adapt to learning challenges within school systems and then guided through focusing support structures at home.​

From kindergarten to teens. ​I can always do a complementary consultation just to answer any questions you might have.

No pressure at all.

Student Stress

“Your body hears everything your mind says.”

– Naomi Judd